May 18 2008
Password Protection - edited: never mind.
Edited: Aw, hell, y’know what y’all? Screw it. Flay away. (And that’s not Bobby, Lys!) It’s my story, it’s why I’m me. Read, comment, tell me I’m a soul-less homewrecker. I’ll still love you. I’ve opened the posts back up. Part 4 right below this one.
Dear All of you,
We’re getting to the part of the story where some people may be a bit, um, taken aback by the whole thing. I’m going to take this story private now. If you’d like to continue reading, please send me an email. I’m happy to give you the password. I don’t plan on making this a habit. I may open it all back up eventually, but I’m getting a bit antsy over the next few ‘chapters’ and I know that I will open myself up to the possibility of some real disapproval.
I’ve been judging myself throughout the past 18 years. I can handle being judged. What I don’t really want is to have others read any judgemental comments I get. I don’t know if password protecting is the answer, or closing comments, or what. I’m new at spilling my guts to the world.
So, we’ll try this, and see how it goes. I’d rather do this than take the stories down.
Much love,
Ree







Password or email, I’m in! No, you’re not a home-wrecker. Mr. Hot’s first marriage was headed for the cleaners, just waiting for a ’slow boat’ to come pick it up and send it to its destination. And for you, young lady, sticking up for yourself and your heart is something you are allowed to do in this life; that’s called living!
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Ree-
I would love to continue reading the story of you and Mr Hot. I found your site when Bossy was planning her visit to Detroit. I was supposed to come to the shindig in Plymouth and then I had some stuff come up and couldn’t make it. I actually was really looking forward to meeting you too!
I love your site- don’t judge me by mine- I’m a blogger in my mind and have not committed to it like I want to…..thanks for sharing. I’ll look forward to the password.
Thanks,
Deb
Deb’s last blog post..Channeling Sissy Spacek
Tell it like it is! It’s your life and nobody else’s to judge. I’m enjoying the story.
You already know how I feel. As for being a homewrecker, that you are not. Soulless? I don’t know. I haven’t seen you dance.
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Get to it, and if anyone gives you shit, I’ll clobber them.
Mr Lady’s last blog post..Company or Crowd?
I doubt that your loyal fans will allow any dissing to go on here.
I was really worried when I started blogging that I would get nutjobs who wanted to know if I had been washed in the blood of the lamb, but the blogging community has been wonderful.
Besides, we’ve got your back.
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I want to know what happens next, too! So if you decide to password protect, please let me in on the big secret. I think this story is awesome so far!
AmyM’s last blog post..I plan on being there ’til the end
Either way you decide to go, just let us know! I don’t think you’re a homewrecker and I’m excited to hear more of your story. It’s brave to allow folks to share in the telling of your tale, so I get it for sure if you want to make it private. No shame in that, either!
You are totally not a homewrecker. Staying in loveless marriages would have hurt both of you, and been horrible for Mr. Hot’s children. I think its a great story. And if anyone gives you shit about it, I will happily beat them up for you.
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You are a brave Goddess :)…
I agree that a loveless marriage is a horrendous way to live.
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I have my arse kicking boots hiding in the cupboard next to me, but I’ll gladly get them out if people start being butts.
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This is a beautiful love story.
I’ve been there…on both the good and bad sides. You go girl! Keep on spillin’ your story. Don’t be so hard on yourself. You found your soul mate. That’s the best thing ever!
Hi Ree, I’ve just caught up on your posts….what a ride. Practice sounds a bit scary, I have to say. Mr. Hot - just plain wonderful. I do feel sorry for the ex Mrs. Hot, but it sounds like theirs was a relationship on the rocks to begin with. Not that that made it any easier for the kids, of course. I will be waiting for the next chapter…
Heidi (ps am reading Candy’s story as well…equally well written and yet completely different. You girls have such a talent for writing. I am beyond envious).
Heidi’s last blog post..It’s Time To Celebrate…
*snorts* as if anyone would be silly enough to cause trouble here..
Looks pointedly under the bridge…
Nah it is all good the largest billy goat gruff says that troll is still under water….
dum de dum de dum
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Oh babe, no one would dare say anything. Not with us biatches around. We will tear em apart!
Kelley’s last blog post..Testing my wifeliness. Yes, it is so a word.
I’ve been in a bad marriage and know how it feels. I’m so glad you found someone wonderful to share your heart and life with!
(and I’m a sucker for a romantic love story . . . *sigh*)
Liz J in Central Illinois’s last blog post..Oh, And?
Gosh I stop to blink a few times and miss out on all the ass kickin’. I will just get in line… if there’s anything left to kick after everyone else has had a turn, lol. Self righteous assholes. Yes. I am so sure they are just *so* perfect.
flutterby’s last blog post..I just love this….
A) Update me on this.
B) Bud Ice??? REALLY???
C) I love a lovely love story.
D) I’m so sorry that Practice was such a loser.
E) If someone doesn’t like this story, why would they keep reading it and comment? I’d just move on and ignore it…but that’s my style.
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Bah, I’ve been busy - just now catching up. Do this however you want, but count me in. And know that this bitch is in no position to judge anyone!
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Damn straight.
Laurel’s last blog post..Friday Four
Count me in too! I want to know aaaall about it! Just ignore all the assholes!
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The only part of this that I will judge you about is the Bud Ice part. Really Ree.. Bud Ice… You could have at least ordered a Bud Light, Corona, Budweiser, Miller High Life..or the Beast.
At some point in our lives when we meet in person would you promise me that you will have a different sort of cocktail..??
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SHIT I keep forgetting to change my website..there we go!
mp’s last blog post..I need a twitter badge that won’t drive me crazy
I’ve spoken briefly about my situation with my husband, and honestly I’ve never gotten a nasty email. Maybe they’ve just gone away…that’s ok though. Of course, I don’t have half the readers you do, but still…people in my neck of the bloggerhood have been pretty ok with it. Fingers crossed for you.
Candy’s last blog post..Charming in Repose
Uh, yeah. Bud Ice? Dood. WTF? Whatever about Mr. Hot, but did you have to drink Bud Ice?
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