Sep 04 2008

Today’s Request for a Good Deed

Published by Ree at 6:41 pm under Alopecia Are-fuck-a, Way too damn serious

The definition of Autoimmune Diseases (courtesy of WebMD) is: “Any disorder in which loss of function or destruction of normal tissue arises from humoral or cellular immune responses to the body’s own tissue constituents; may be systemic, as systemic lupus erythematosus, or organ specific, as thyroiditis.”

There are over 100 different disorders associated with these “immune responses” - some deadly, some treatable, some curable, some just damned inconvenient.

If you’ve been around here for a while, you know about me and my own personal battle.  Alopecia  is not one of the deadly disorders.  It’s also not treatable nor curable.  No one can tell me for sure what triggers an episode, or why, after being in remission for 12 years, it’s suddenly back.   It is a fucking pain…because I never was very good at putting on makeup, and now I have to deal with painting on eyebrows, too?  Oh mah holy hell, whose idea of some grand, cosmic joke was this?

Yea, well, they can bite me.

But there’s one thing that I know with 100% certainty.  I can lead a normal life with no hair.  I can go run.  I can hold down a job and have a family.  I can hug my friends and my pets.  No one has ever died from being stared at in the grocery store (believe me - you may want to … but it’s just not worth getting upset over).  And y’know? I can take a shower, get dressed, and be out of the house in the time it used to take me to wash and condition my hair.  Sometimes “extra time” is a gift.

Then, there’s little Ivy.  I learned about Ivy from Veronica.   Ivy’s mom is mom to seven children.  Two sets of twins (!) and one singleton.  She also took custody of two nephews.  This is a special woman - who has a very special little girl.

Ivy also suffers from an autoimmune disease.  It’s called Pemphigus - (not pretty if you click there, but very, very enlightening) and the medicine that Ivy takes to keep this horrible disease under control suppresses the rest of her immune system.  She’s unable to fight off any kind of infection.   Which places her in the hospital for things that your children or mine would fight off with a quick dose of an antibiotic.

The thing is - there is a treatment.  From Veronica’s site:

It’s called IVIG (intravenous immunoglobulin) and it is a transfusion of immune cells that would bolster Ivy’s own immune system and help her fight infections in a normal way.

Unfortunately, the officials at the Australian National Blood Authority have denied the request for Ivy to have this treatment. This treatment that could very well keep her out of hospital. So far, all appeals have been in vain.

Um.  Excuse me, Australian National Blood Authority?  WTF?  WT-OMHH-F are you thinking?

So, for those of you who think that this sucks and that beautiful Ivy deserves to live life outside the hospital - playing in the playground, going to school with her friends -  will you spend two minutes of time and please GO HERE!!!!  Sign the petition that is up.  Let’s help this family with our power.

And for those of you who have stuck around with me, helping me get through my own little crises - here’s MY treatment.  Three-hundred-dollars and two hours of my time got me hair.  Ginger-brown “Ellie” from Rene of Paris - a little eyeliner, eyebrow pencil,  and a long-enough arm to point my camera and you get to meet Ree’s wig.

Ready?


—- Now, go sign that petition, okay?  Ivy deserves it.  —-

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54 Responses to “Today’s Request for a Good Deed”

  1. Mr Ladyon 04 Sep 2008 at 7:04 pm

    I loved bald Ree, but I gotsta say, that does NOT look like a wig, yo. MeeeOooow.

    Also, Ivy totally deserves all the help she can get. So does her momma. The Tiff clan has been through ENOUGH.

    Thanks for posting about her. I am so already petitioned.

    Mr Lady’s last blog post..Denver DNC Recap: The Important Stuff Part Three

  2. Lyson 04 Sep 2008 at 7:08 pm

    HOT DAMN REE!!! That looks fabulous!

    Petition signed :) Kudos to you for giving Ivy’s plight some attention.

    Lys’s last blog post..HTML Queens…

  3. mpon 04 Sep 2008 at 7:19 pm

    Most importantly…I signed the petition..OMG help that baby.

    2nd of all, I agree..bald Ree is HOT…but new Ellie Ree..is Hot too.. I like it, color is great. Looks very natural, how does it feel..both touch and on your head??

    Mr Hot digging it? It could be like he’s cheating.. :-P
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  4. Dingoon 04 Sep 2008 at 7:27 pm

    You know, I loved bald Ree but this looks terrific! Thanks for posting about Ivy. I’m going to take a look right now.

    Dingo’s last blog post..Outrageous! (NSFW)

  5. Melissa from Pittsburghon 04 Sep 2008 at 7:36 pm

    That is horrible … about IVY! I signed the petition. I wish I had more readers so I could do more (alas, I don’t get many on my blog but I will still post a link to the petition!).

    LOVE the color & style Ree - looks great!

  6. Candyon 04 Sep 2008 at 7:42 pm

    You’re beautiful, but then I knew that. On my way to sign the petition.

    Candy’s last blog post..Crying Me A River

  7. Jen on the Edgeon 04 Sep 2008 at 7:46 pm

    DAYUM!!!! You look beautiful!

    Jen on the Edge’s last blog post..Houses and more houses

  8. rachelon 04 Sep 2008 at 7:51 pm

    Love that sexy hair!

    And oh mah hell I’m diggin’ the new header, those boots are some kind of hawtness!!!!!

    rachel’s last blog post..The Sister She Always Wanted

  9. Tinaon 04 Sep 2008 at 7:52 pm

    Ree, that looks fabulous! Of course, you’re gorgeous without it, too, so no surprise there. I’m headed over to sign the petition for little Ivy now. Good God, I can’t believe this world sometimes.

    Tina’s last blog post..Back to school…BWAHAHAHAHAHA!!!

  10. Solomon@ThingsI'mGratefulForon 04 Sep 2008 at 7:58 pm

    Nice wig. I’m just a leedle disappointed that you didn’t go for the pink Lacus Clyne one, but this works too. ;)
    Solomon@ThingsI’mGratefulFor’s last blog post..Things I’m Grateful For on Thursday 4 September

  11. Nancyon 04 Sep 2008 at 8:14 pm

    Perfect! Cut, color, style …. you are rockin’!

    Now I’m heading over to sign that petition.

    Nancy’s last blog post..Bently, Incognito

  12. mamacrowon 04 Sep 2008 at 8:34 pm

    it looks great!

    but I kinda preferred the bald Ree, sorry!

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  13. Fishing Aroundon 04 Sep 2008 at 8:35 pm

    I love it!

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  14. Liz J in Central Illinoison 04 Sep 2008 at 8:35 pm

    LOVE the hair, Ree!

    And I signed the petition - - I hope they decide to give that poor little girl a chance at a normal life!

    Liz J in Central Illinois’s last blog post..Very Important Update On My Other Blog

  15. Fannieon 04 Sep 2008 at 8:39 pm

    First, I signed the petition. Second, love the wig - cute and sassy!

    Fannie’s last blog post..A letter to Sarah Palin

  16. zeghsyon 04 Sep 2008 at 8:46 pm

    signed.

    damn… you look hot as a brunette. wonder what you’d look like as a blonde, a redhead?

    zeghsy’s last blog post..“oh may holy hell, y’all”

  17. suburbancorrespondenton 04 Sep 2008 at 9:11 pm

    Nice!

    suburbancorrespondent’s last blog post..As The Food Turns

  18. DogsDontPurron 04 Sep 2008 at 9:11 pm

    You are too fabulous!!! Love the hair! Hot Hot Hot!

  19. witchypooon 04 Sep 2008 at 9:22 pm

    There’s going to be some flirting going on at your house!
    You look adorable, as always. And the wig? Looks totally natural, and a very cute cut.

    witchypoo’s last blog post..Little Ivy

  20. anymommyon 04 Sep 2008 at 9:25 pm

    You look fabulous, dah-ling ;-) Going to check out the site for the sweet girl.

    anymommy’s last blog post..This Old House

  21. anymommyon 04 Sep 2008 at 9:26 pm

    You look fabulous dah-ling! Going to check out the site right now.

  22. Shaniaon 04 Sep 2008 at 9:47 pm

    That does not look like a wig! Gorgeousness. And petition signed.

    Shania’s last blog post..Let’s have a bit of humor, shall we?

  23. daysgobyon 04 Sep 2008 at 9:54 pm

    You’re gorgeous, chick, whatever color your scalp or hair is. (Pink, purple…)

    I signed Ivy’s petition. Poor little thing.

    daysgoby’s last blog post..first day: grade one

  24. Veronicaon 04 Sep 2008 at 9:58 pm

    You look amazing and you ARE amazing.

    Veronica’s last blog post..Ivy Girl

  25. teenion 04 Sep 2008 at 10:42 pm

    Oooh - it’s got one of those mono filament tops that looks so very real! I’d have never known if you didn’t say so. I’m so proud of learning what monofilament was when it comes to wigs from my own bout with hairlessness (due to chemo) but to be honest, my hair was never very thick and I think I might actually shave the old head again and get a new wig for winter. Since my hair is so thin, I know what those stares feel like. But I love your perspective on it. As for eyebrows - Sally Beauty supply sells a great little stencil and powder that you just pat on - it looks way more natural than eyebrow pencil (another thing learned from going through chemo). Regardless, you look fantastic and you have very pretty eyes!

    teeni’s last blog post..Appearances can be Deceiving

  26. teenion 04 Sep 2008 at 10:43 pm

    OOh - and I did sign the petition - that was the easiest way to help someone that I could possible think of.

    teeni’s last blog post..Appearances can be Deceiving

  27. Twisting Ivyon 04 Sep 2008 at 10:51 pm

    That’s some sexy & sassy hair ;)

    Almost as fun as funky scarves. Love it!

    Twisting Ivy’s last blog post..Impulsive, I Am

  28. Genieon 04 Sep 2008 at 11:08 pm

    I love the wig, and I also think you’re fabulous with OR without it.

    Petition signed. Unbelievable what people will — and won’t — do in this world.

  29. Jennyon 04 Sep 2008 at 11:15 pm

    Lookee you! I’m amazed at your strength and touched by the story you linked - I’ll be signing that petition as soon as I finish this comment.

    Your hair looks fabulous! Cute cut too. Have you thought about getting wigs that are blonde? Redhead for a day? Maybe too $$, but still…. the possibilities.

    My Husband had sarcoidosis a number of years ago, another auto immune disease. It’s “OK” when you’re an adult, but my heart breaks for children (and their parents) who are sick.

    Off to sign … YOU have a fabulous weekend.

    xoxo

    Jenny’s last blog post..September

  30. Louiseon 05 Sep 2008 at 12:10 am

    Signed! Australian Blood Authority is being a douche!

    I know ALL ABOUT the stupid eyebrow-painting-on stuff… I’m so glad that mine finally decided to grow back on their own, along with my eyelashes.

    Your wig looks fantastic. I love mono tops. My new wig has a mono top/lace front which looks awesome, if I take the time to tape it down.

    Have a great weekend!

  31. Pamelaon 05 Sep 2008 at 12:52 am

    that head will get you some.
    fo. sho.

    Pamela’s last blog post..sort-of-wordless wednesday, or and away she went.

  32. Amaelijaon 05 Sep 2008 at 12:59 am

    And the Hotfessional out hots herself again.

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  33. charlotteon 05 Sep 2008 at 12:59 am

    Petition signed. And wow, that is some seriously nice hair. Almost as nice as that green scarf.

    Kidding, of course. :-)
    charlotte’s last blog post..From an erstwhile community organizer …

  34. Major Bedheadon 05 Sep 2008 at 1:03 am

    I signed the petition. What a horrible disease.

    You look fantastic! Love it, but I, too, would have loved to have seen a red headed Ree.

    Major Bedhead’s last blog post..Behind Closed Doors

  35. ilinapon 05 Sep 2008 at 1:38 am

    I had to read your post twice to figure out that’s a wig. I like to think that’s a product of the fabulous wig workmanship rather than my stupidity.

  36. blackbirdon 05 Sep 2008 at 1:48 am

    hey!
    You look damn cute!
    Plus, your attitude should win you a prize.
    I’ll get right over there and sign petition - that’s maddening.
    My nephew has Addison’s Disease/APS Type 1 (another difficult auto immune disease) and we are grateful that he can be treated.

    blackbird’s last blog post..my teacher

  37. The Over-Thinkeron 05 Sep 2008 at 2:12 am

    Hey!! I LOVE it! And you know—the wig also give you a kick-ass prop for drama. Say, I dunno, you go into the office one day, walk in all nice and then go apeshit & totally rip your wig off and yell, scream: “I’m mad as hell and you call all SUCK IT!”

    On a serious note, thanks for posting about Ivy. I’m off to sign…

    The Over-Thinker’s last blog post..Welcome to the Freakshow! Have a seat, ya Nutbag.

  38. Carrieon 05 Sep 2008 at 2:23 am

    Love the new look Ree…and I went over and promptly signed the petition!!!

    Carrie’s last blog post..First Day of School!!!

  39. Tulion 05 Sep 2008 at 2:33 am

    Your new ‘do is fantastic!

    Off to read about Ivy.

    Tuli’s last blog post..Thrifty Thursday and a new ‘do.

  40. imhelendton 05 Sep 2008 at 3:54 am

    You look MAHHHHHHVELOUS Dahling!!!! Simply Mahhhhhvelous! I signed the petition. My friend’s daughter gets IVIG treatments for another disease called ITP.

    imhelendt’s last blog post..My ninja skillz are powerful, Oh Buzzy One. Do not anger me.

  41. just bobon 05 Sep 2008 at 4:21 am

    You look great!!!!!!!

    just bob

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  42. tiffon 05 Sep 2008 at 5:34 am

    Thank you.
    I can’t think of anything else to say because words are just not enough.

    tiff’s last blog post..Just when you were losing hope with humanity…

  43. suoer heroon 05 Sep 2008 at 10:22 am

    i didnt know what your condition is until this post, but i had seen one of your pics with no hair and i thought it was because of another condition which i wouldnt like to pronounce because i sort of believe that if you pronounce a bad condition or even if you think about it, it happens.

    im just glad to hear that it is only baldness.

    suoer hero’s last blog post..whats in a football game

  44. Charmedon 05 Sep 2008 at 12:39 pm

    Love the new ‘do! On my way tot he petition now.

  45. Shellyon 05 Sep 2008 at 1:38 pm

    And that right there is why socialized medicine sucks. I’m signing that petition. There is no reason to deny that child the help she needs.

    LOVE the new wig! Great color, great style, and it totally looks real.

    Shelly’s last blog post..Chance Encounter

  46. MamaKarenon 05 Sep 2008 at 3:30 pm

    I signed the petition. The prednisone that Ivy is on can have major effects when it’s taken for a lifetime. Short term use can do wonders, but taken for years and years it can cause some major deterioriation of the body (my BIL is seeing a myriad of issues because he’s been on it for decades).

    I do like the ‘do. it totally doesn’t look like a wig, as far as I’m concerned, and the style is very flattering.

    MamaKaren’s last blog post..In a world, where voiceover actors can be pop culture icons…

  47. Hyphen Mamaon 05 Sep 2008 at 7:14 pm

    I’ll have to go back and read the comments on this post when little people aren’t screaming… but I just have to comment real quick!

    I LOVE the wig. That doesn’t even remotely look like a wig. Awesome! (do people still stay that?) At least I didn’t say ‘groovy’.

    And secondly, this post made me all kinds of thankful that *my* autoimmune disease allows me to live a normal life. It may not always be this way, but for now, I’m good. But that little girl? It’s just NOT RIGHT! I’ve been inlove with Ivy for the few weeks I’ve been reading Tiff’s blog and I’ve layed awake wondering what the heck can be done to help her. How absolutely wonderful of Veronica to take the initiative to get this petition started! I hope there are thousands of signatures when it’s said and done.

    Hyphen Mama’s last blog post..Your Empathy is NEEDED

  48. Vanessaon 05 Sep 2008 at 10:54 pm

    You look fantastic! Off to read more about Ivy now.

  49. Sarahon 05 Sep 2008 at 11:55 pm

    Wow! That’s a very sassy look, Mrs H! You look mahvallous, dahlink!

    I signed the petition, too. :)
    Sarah’s last blog post..Almost Amy Shirts Available!

  50. MommyTimeon 06 Sep 2008 at 1:58 am

    Signed the petition. LOVE the hair. It looks awesome! Have a great weekend (with real beer? Excellent!)

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  51. Kelleyon 07 Sep 2008 at 9:46 am

    Hot. Damn Hot. But you know that.

    I was going to post about Ivy, but seems everyone is doing it and I don’t want it to get old so I have emailed all my friends to do it. Seems a compromise eh?

    Love you for doing it babe.

    Kelley’s last blog post..My hovercraft is full of eels

  52. Madmadon 08 Sep 2008 at 1:26 am

    Oooooh! I LOVE it! It looks fab! Very natural, and very stylish! Perfect.

    Madmad’s last blog post..I really, really need a job

  53. Dawnon 10 Sep 2008 at 3:53 am

    holy shit, nice hairs :)
    Dawns last blog post..Whew - I needed that!

  54. Kristabellaon 11 Sep 2008 at 2:06 am

    You look FABULOUS! It doesn’t look like a wig at all!

    I love it!

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